Mastering Emotional Balance: A Guy's Guide to Mental Wellness

The contrast between age and personality is primarily determined by psychological age. Some men may appear young and youthful on the outside, but their behavior and personality can be very mature.

Men need to learn psychological adjustment, as the psychological issues they face vary at different stages of life.

1. Youth

Boys aged 0 to 5 have no willpower but are very mischievous. Their intellectual development is not yet complete, and they cannot clearly recognize gender differences. From 6 to 16, they develop rapidly and begin to exhibit distinct personality traits. During this stage, their personality is unstable and prone to change, with both speech and actions often being childish. Their thoughts may be imaginative, and they have many questions. They desire independence while still seeking protection from their family. From 16 to 24, their bodies are fully developed, secondary sexual characteristics are prominent, and they experience nocturnal emissions and sperm production. At this stage, they have their own judgment and ways of doing things. However, their worldview,人生观, and价值观 are still in a state of confusion. When misunderstandings arise, they handle them based on their own thoughts and do not listen to others' advice. When unusual problems occur, their personality flaws may become more pronounced.

2. Middle Age

From 25 to 35, men begin to experience various trials in society. As they age, their experiences increase, and their psychology tends to mature. They start to establish independent life goals and have unique insights into certain people and events, but they may also have impulsive thoughts and actions. From 36 to 45, influenced by their environment, they develop a deeper perspective on handling affairs. Due to differences in personality, their approaches vary widely. From 46 to 55, they become more confident in life, handling tasks and conversations with great skill and being able to see the root of issues at a glance.

3. Old Age

Men aged 56 to 65 refuse to accept old age. At this stage, they are more open-minded and have a broad胸怀, no longer nitpicking over small matters. After 65, men begin to accept their fate, becoming more easygoing. Their diverse personalities evolve into a few distinct traits, and they take everything in stride. They no longer feel the initial自卑感 or engage in comparisons, nor do they envy or admire others.

Reminder

Men exhibit different psychological states at different stages of life. Generally, men bear more psychological pressure than women, so it is essential to pay attention to psychological adjustment and face everything with a平和的心态. Maintain a natural attitude and learn to release inner压力.