Do you often negate others? Or, are you often negated by others? Why do some people always find it easy to negate others? I believe this question lingers in many people's minds. So, why is that?
One reason is that these people are very selfish. They only care about their own thoughts and interests, never bothering about whether others are happy or satisfied. Hence, they selfishly and willfully negate others.
Another reason is that these people have poor psychological resilience. Unable to handle too much pressure or failure, they shift all the blame onto others, thus constantly negating them.
A third reason is that these people have extremely strong self-esteem and are very vain. They negate you often because you are too outstanding, your life is too colorful, and everything you have is what they desire but cannot attain. To protect their self-esteem and satisfy their vanity, they deliberately belittle and negate you.
A fourth reason is that these people fear being surpassed. Those who frequently negate others may be unwilling to put in effort or learn, and without learning, they won't progress. If they don't progress, they will be surpassed. To avoid being surpassed, they negate and suppress others, making them lose confidence, thereby preventing themselves from being surpassed.
A fifth reason is that these people are arrogant. In their view, negating, belittling, and lecturing others, making them seem worthless, can highlight how great they themselves are. They are very arrogant, and with a little bit of power or status, they become conceited, especially fond of negating and lecturing others, making everyone listen to them, which gives them great psychological satisfaction.
A sixth reason is that these people have personality issues. In fact, they have no real abilities, are not particularly outstanding, and do not work hard, but they simply enjoy negating others. They think they are very reasonable and capable, but in reality, they lack any genuine talent or knowledge.
In summary, people who are always quick to negate others are not good people. Such individuals either have personality issues or moral problems. When others make mistakes or need to be taught some experience, the correct approach is to gently inform them of what they should do, rather than constantly negating them, as this behavior is often thankless. As for others' negations, there's no need to take them too seriously, especially those who talk nonsense without any real ability. Just ignore what they say, focus on being yourself, and do what you are supposed to do.
