How to Tell If They're Into You: Key Signs to Watch For

In emotional relationships, some people are slow to react and don't even realize when someone likes them, while others clearly like someone but don't want the other person to know, which can easily lead to missed connections. So how can you tell if someone likes you?

Is he secretly observing you?

Please pay close attention to whether he secretly watches you, and when you look at him, he quickly shifts his gaze away, pretending it was unintentional (when he quickly looks away, it feels a bit guilty, though the term might not be entirely appropriate, that's the feeling, you get it). If these things happen, then you can be sure that he/she likes you.

Does he initiate contact?

When you like someone, you often think about them, so it's natural for the other person to initiate contact with you. If you're always the one reaching out, it's likely that the other person doesn't like you. (Unless the other person is extremely introverted and even talks very little to people they are very familiar with, but such people are really rare).

Does he always find ways to talk to you or "accidentally" run into you?

How can you tell if someone likes you? How to judge if someone likes you? Someone who likes you will often find ways to "accidentally" run into you, then act like it's a coincidence, but actually, they've planned it all out. If you frequently "accidentally" run into someone or "coincidentally" meet the same person when doing something, it's possible they like you.

Does your mood affect them?

Does your mood affect their mood? When you're happy, are they also happy and share in your joy? When you're unhappy, do they also feel down and promptly comfort and care for you?

Do they secretly help you?

If they like you, they will always be attentive to you, know your difficulties, know your needs, and will do their best to help you, even sacrificing themselves to assist you.

Seemingly indifferent

When you're around them, they often appear indifferent and nonchalant, but once you disappear, they will search the whole world to find you and feel reassured. If such a person is around you, it means they really like you, and such people are usually very persistent in their emotions.

Their emotional reactions are incomprehensible to you

Does he get angry for no reason? Does he get unusually happy for no reason? Does he insist on you doing something, but you feel it's unnecessary or don't want to do it? If you can't understand his emotional reactions, it means he's projecting some information from his mind onto you. To put it plainly, he has an image of someone he likes in his mind, and he thinks you are that person, so it's hard for you to understand his reactions to you.